Sunday, December 30, 2012

No Tmi here

When you are trying to conceive or maybe it's just me there is never tmi.. The things you discuss with doctors, friends, relatives..like frequency of intimacy, positions, bodily fluids. You just have to lose all modesty. Especially since once pregnant I'm sure it's worse!!

There's a fine line too.. That of course I've already crossed.. Of discussing your struggles too much. Then you get everyone asking when your period is due, where in your cycle you are at and giving advice and tips..sometimes unwanted and uneducated. Most of it because they care!

There are months I want to stop trying, but I can't because we can't afford Ivf or private adoption. Going through DSS is a Long process and there aren't many infants. I couldn't foster humans.. Fostering dogs is one thing but if I got attached to a child and then couldn't adopt them that'd be awful.